Monday 25 August 2014

6 Ways to Bring Lust Back Into Your Relationship



When the newness of a committed relationship wears off, we often get stuck in monotony. Couples may find that they go to the same restaurants, watch the same movies, walk through the same park, or take the same family trips every year. They may even have the same robotic sex in the bedroom. Eventually, you both grow tired and bored in your relationship—and consequently, you slowly drift apart.
But your relationship doesn't have to be another statistic! You can reignite the passion in your relationship today by incorporating these ideas into your daily routine:

Make Them Notice You
No one enjoys the same thing over and over again. You can regain their attention by making a small physical change that will catch their eye (as long as it's something you want, too!). For example, change your hair style, go from flats to heels, wear a sexier-than-usual dress to dinner, or wear red lipstick. Just do something totally out of the ordinary that'll be exciting for both of you. 


Keep (Little) Secrets
It's not necessary that you share every single little detail of your day at the office or at home. Obviously tell them what they need to know, but leave a little mystery to spark their curiosity. 


Surprise Them
Do something sweet and out-of-the-blue—like surprise them with tickets to a concert or make their favorite dessert. The more thought, time, effort, and creativity you put into it, the bigger the payoff later. You may just get a surprise of your own in return!


Treat Them as You Want to be Treated
Think about whatever makes you feel nurtured and cared for. If you would appreciate a back massage, a hot bath, or having your laundry folded, then do it for them. Chances are, they'll get the idea and do the same for you.


Get Your Sexy On
Anticipation and passion go hand-in-hand. If you are ready to get it on, shoot them a sexy text. There is nothing more erotic than receiving a hot message from your partner in the middle of the workday. And the language can be as naughty as you dare. 


Think Outside the Box
Most people would love to experience something new during sex, but they fear failure or "taking it too far." You can excite them by introducing a new toy, a flavored or heated lubricant, a scented massage candle, or any other new and creative idea. This will give you total control and leave you open to tease all of their senses.

 


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